Solo travel, with a little more confidence.
Honest travel stories and practical advice for solo and LGBTQ+ travellers, with a special welcome for those starting after 50.
Hey, I’m DeeJay Alex. I’m a gay man in my sixties, a retired DJ, and the author of No Plus One Required. My travels have included trips with others and solo journeys, including Puerto Vallarta in 2021 and 2022 and Costa Rica. Here I share the places I’ve explored, the people I’ve met, and the lessons that made the next trip easier.
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DeeJay Alex
Solo traveller & author
I’m a gay traveller in my sixties sharing personal stories and practical lessons from the road. I wrote No Plus One Required to help other gay men begin travelling with more confidence.
What you’ll find here
- Solo Travel Guides
Practical advice, planning tips, and real solo travel experiences to help you travel with more confidence. - LGBTQ+ Travel
Inclusive destinations, travel safety insights, and experiences from the road as an LGBTQ+ traveller. - Digital Nomad Life
Remote work, long-term travel, and what it actually takes to live and work from anywhere. - Travel Safety & Real Talk
Clear, practical advice on staying safe, grounded, and confident while travelling. - Destination Guides & Stories
Cities, neighbourhoods, and places worth visiting — told through real experiences, not just lists.